Why the culture of constant busyness and self-care makes us anxious, tense, and burned out - and how to break free

Why the culture of constant busyness and self-care makes us anxious and tense.
Today, success is measured not only by achievements in the professional sphere but also by how we look. We must be not just productive and efficient, but also... mindful, slim, toned, and disciplined - drinking warm water with lemon in the mornings, reading a book a week, dedicating time to ourselves: running, doing yoga, or going to the gym, looking stylish, visiting a psychologist, or practicing spirituality. But at the same time, it’s unclear how to fit everything in. The world seems to whisper to us: "You must try even harder. Pull yourself together. Everything depends only on you." And if you can't manage - then there’s something wrong with you. In the age of social media, this feeling only intensifies. We endlessly compare ourselves to others' photos, unaware of how many filters, retouches, and carefully chosen angles hide behind perfect shots. We are convinced that "normal" people live by a schedule, are always energized, filled with motivation, and look like they only engage in sports and psychotherapy.
Entire industries are built on this. They sell us programs, diets, apps, marathons - everything that supposedly should bring us closer to the "best version of ourselves." This book offers a pause to reflect: does the pursuit of constant efficiency and perfection really lead us to harmony and happiness? Fatigue is not a sign of weakness but an important signal indicating the need to reassess priorities. Maintaining the image of a "successful person" at the limit of our strength is impossible, and not necessary. "Imagining a life in which you do not chase unrealistic standards is frightening or even impossible.
However, as a result, you gain the freedom to think for yourself, spend your time and money as you see fit, and be in harmony with yourself, even if the outside world tries to prove otherwise." Paula Friedman-Diamond