Happiness by the Rules and Without. When following the call of your heart, don't forget to bring your brain along

Tatiana Shavrova is a popular blogger and relationship psychology coach with a doctoral degree in cultural studies. For 15 years, she studied people's characters while working as a producer and top manager in television (programs such as «Take It Off Immediately», «The Club of Ex-Wives», «House 2», «Reboot», «Get It Done in 24 Hours»).
Most women, when asked what they want in their personal lives, respond: «I want to meet my person, the one, to love and be loved». An excellent plan, which, however, requires a lot of clarifications. Only by knowing exactly who you are, what is good for you and what is a complete nightmare, what you can give to a person and what is impossible to get from you, — only after this can you confidently start looking around for «the one». Only then will your heart start working in unison with your brain and filter out about 80% of the «not for me» before you even approach them. This means you won't waste your time or expend your annual supply of love on some another jerk.
Learn to understand yourself — this will be the best investment of your life. Yes, there will be fewer princes in your life, but more worthy men. And it will be easier for you to choose «the one».
And a detailed classifier of jerks, compiled by Tatiana Shavrova, will teach you to recognize them at the acquaintance stage and not to waste a single day of your invaluable life on them.