Stronger Than You Think. A Book for Those Who Feel Something is Wrong with Their Relationships

Our ideas of "ideal" relationships are so stereotypical that they can ruin even truly happy unions. This is confirmed by science, says Gary Lewandowski — a psychologist and relationship expert, professor and researcher. The author uses his 20 years of... experience to open readers' eyes to the qualities of a partner that are often overrated, and the "red flags" in relationships that we, on the contrary, overlook.
The scientific approach of Professor Lewandowski to the topic of romantic relationships helps to stop looking for problems where there are none, and teaches how to build relationships rationally.

Lie:
- one cannot be selfish in a relationship;
- indifference to a partner's successes is bad;
- there should be a lot of sex, otherwise it's not love;
- one cannot build a relationship with a frivolous person.

Truth:
- frequent quarrels are a sign of working relationships;
- men and women come from the same planet and speak the same language;
- to get closer, no special joint leisure is needed;
- happy relationships are always imperfect.