Lara Gall — a contemporary Russian writer, author of the eponymous blog on «Yandex.Zen» with an audience of over 14,000 subscribers, in which she discusses human relationships honestly, humorously, and «without censorship», shares her experiences, and analyzes stories from her subscribers, earning popularity and trust from her audience. A solitary packager of meanings into letters, residing at the very edge. Works undercover as a «wife/mother/author/columnist/influencer». «Love. Before and After» — an honest and deeply candid book about women, men, and love. The author, with her characteristic straightforwardness and irony, tells about the birth of this feeling, its development, and subsequent transformation into such different «in meaning» beings as «M» and «F». She helps women understand the male nature, part ways with romantic illusions, and transform love-doubt into love-calmness. A separate chapter of the book is devoted to infidelities, the numerous misconceptions about them, and ways to heal the «damaged» brain and soul. «Lord, help us all, otherwise we will torment ourselves and others, and we will spend our lives on this, never living in joy».