20 First Dates and One Psychologist. How to Find Your True Self in the Search for Love

The author does not provide universal recipes for how to "get married in 10 days," but helps to achieve the main thing — to remove the shame from the desire to be loved, to experience past disappointments, and to set off with a light heart to meet your person. Additionally, the author helps to decipher hidden motives, fears, and defense mechanisms that activate when we meet someone.
You will learn how dates help to understand your true desires, where to find a balance between autonomy and closeness, and why wanting warmth is not a weakness, but a normal human need. Yes, living alone is safer and easier. But why, if somewhere out there is that "last first date" waiting for you?

Svetlana Guseva — a blogger, author of a humorous channel about relationships with an audience of over 35 thousand people.
We are used to planning our careers, working on our abs, and tidying up our homes. But when it comes to relationships, we obediently wait for "the one," as if searching for love is supposedly shameful, naive, or funny. But what if that’s not the case? What if dates are not a humiliating casting, but an exciting psychological journey, where the main prize is — you yourself?