Love Without Buts and Ifs. How to Build the Main Relationships in Your Life Without Betraying Yourself

The good news: no one can make you unhappy. The bad news: no one can make you happy.
So why do we need a partner? Why do we all seek «true love», which seems to us synonymous with happiness? Why do... strong feelings often bring great pain?
In answering these questions, the famous Spanish gestalt therapist Joan Garriga unfolds a large and detailed map of romantic relationships. It is not created to provide a «formula for love» and explain how you should live and how you should love. Through this map, you can chart your unique course. Traveling through the landscapes of various forms of relationship, you will see what is important to you in another person and what life scenario brings you happiness personally.
With the help of this therapy book, you and your partner will discover true love without «buts» and «if onlys», which:is oriented towards the present and future, not tied to the past; allows both you and your loved one to be who you are; enriches and helps to unlock your potential; makes life easier instead of being a source of stress.