I want to live at my own pace. What I realized while chasing someone else's dreams

When society encourages overwork and competition, promotes the search for a soulmate, and even shows how to furnish an apartment to make others envious, burning out from the thought that you are not good enough is as easy as pie. In this healing collection of essays, Van Ha shares insights that came to him throughout the time he chased other people's goals, successful success, and the approval of those around him. He believes that sometimes you need to step out of the race, and it won't mean that you've given up. Sometimes you need to let go of dreams that are not meant to come true and not blame yourself for it. Sometimes you need to lose the meaning of life to take a pause and rethink everything. This book of healing acceptance will give you permission to make mistakes and move through life at your own pace. Because the desire to be perfect brings a lot of pain, and acknowledging your right to your own speed makes your life special and truly unique.