You are either right or happy. How to rethink your past and rewrite your future

When old scripts stop working, a crisis begins. And a person has a choice: to improve relationships or confine themselves to rigid frameworks. ALEXANDER ROITMAN, a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist, offers to reconsider habitual behavior patterns and become the master of one's life. He urges not to insist on being right at all costs, but to answer important questions. WHAT GAME ARE YOU PLAYING? WHY DO YOU SUBCONSCIOUSLY EXPECT FAILURE? WHY DO YOU ATTRIBUTE PERSONAL FAILURES TO FATE? DOES THE VICTIM'S POSITION MAKE YOU HAPPY? A VIEW OF THE WORLD IS EACH PERSON'S PERSONAL CHOICE. JUST AS IS THE CHOICE TO ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OR BLAME OTHERS, TO BE SUCCESSFUL, LOVED... With the help of this book, you will master Roitman's unique algorithm. A method that will allow you to look at the past from the position of a happy person and rewrite the future in a new way. TESTIMONIAL: “Alexander Roitman is an outstanding clinical psychologist, a master of his craft. Clinical specialists rarely and unwillingly write books. Practice is always more complex, always between the lines. And is it even possible to reflect decades of experience on paper? This makes this book all the more valuable and long-awaited for me. It is very straightforward and honest, like a mirror. Roitman not only exposes unpleasant, sometimes scary questions, but also provides a tool for choice, a map, and hope that there is a way out. An unexpected, unceremonious exit — to greater happiness and greater strength in hands and feet.” — MARAT ATNASHEV, Professor of Practice at the Moscow School of Management Skolkovo QUOTES: “I will not give a brazen slacker the right to speak to me as an equal, but I am ready to respect even a rebellious teenager in a curious young man.” “An algorithm is a model that will help you look at your past and your life from the position of a happy person.” “To stop playing, one must realize the game, understand their gain, and think about how to achieve the desired in another way — to step off the beaten track and find a new path.” “In a crisis, there is a choice — either to rise to a higher level of relationships