One Love Is Not Enough. 12 Questions to Answer Before Deciding on Marriage

He is a slob, and she can't stand mess. She loves noisy parties, and he can't stand crowds. He tracks every purchase, while she spends money without checking her card balance. Is their marriage doomed?
Often we marry, blinded by love,... thinking our partner is perfect. But a couple of years after the wedding, we start noticing each other's flaws.
For the last 40 years, Gary Chapman has been counseling couples whose dreams of a happy family life have shattered against the reality of dirty dishes, unpaid bills, conflicting work schedules, and crying babies. Chapman believes that divorce is a result of a lack of preparation for marriage and partnership skills.
He wrote this book to help young couples consciously approach the most important step in their lives - starting a family. For those already married, to prevent a crisis, and if it does occur, to successfully overcome it. Gary Chapman will help you build the relationship of your dreams.