I Am Not With You. A Guide to Getting Out of Unhealthy Attachment and Increasing Self-Esteem

Violation of personal boundaries. The need to earn love. Total control. Complete dissolution in a partner. And this is far from a complete list of signs of codependent relationships.

In this book, popular psychologist Marina Goguyeva provides a detailed explanation of why you fall into unhealthy attachment, how to recognize an abuser, and how to let go of relationships that no longer bring joy. 

She also offers a plan that will help you find support within yourself and establish personal boundaries with others.